A bad break up or lonely bout of lost love often cause two common side effects: You may feel less desirable and more afraid of being alone for the rest of your life. Learn to ease your fears and fall in love with your new single life when you use 2 Love Tips:
1. Face Your Fears
Many newly-single men and women escape the pain and fear of being alone with pain killers like alcohol, pharmaceuticals, by over working, over-eating, over-sleeping, over dating.
Instead of over-indulging or numbing your fears, I recommend that you face them. Then you can find a path out of them. Here are common post-breakup fears:
Are you afraid of:
*staying stuck in painful emotions
*forgetting your dreams of adventure travel, work success, romantic love
*facing health challenges alone *never feeling appreciated *shutting down your sexual desires *growing old without giving or receiving romantic love again
*never finding a love match as wonderful as your former love
*creating debt instead of building wealth
*raising children alone as a single parent
*feeling isolated from friends whom you enjoyed as a couple
*being stuck in dead-end job or directionless dating
*feeling drained of energy and enthusiasm with no way to recharge your joyful vitality
Jot down your unvarnished list of your deepest, most painful fears. With list in hand, now you’re ready for the next step.
2. Use The Remedy For Each Fear
A single remedy often eases many fears at once — whatever you’re missing, lacking or afraid that you won’t receive from someone else, simply give this to yourself as a way to fulfill your own needs, wants, desires. Here are a few examples:
Feeling unappreciated and unloved?
Find ways to express hearty appreciation and love to yourself every day.
Feeling stuck on your ex, or in negative emotions or life circumstances?
Take positive steps each day to let go of past and start fresh with positive outlook and action plans.
Feeling disconnected from former friends or your delayed dreams?
Reach out and make connections with new single friends for dining, travel, seminars, book discussions or courses that are your guide to greater health, wealth, success and love.
Feeling shut out of romantic love?
Join a matchmaking service or online dating site that connects you with a new community of savvy singles who create an adventure out of finding your next great love and living your dreams now.
Using these remedies will help you survive a breakup and thrive in single life.
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Love fully and live your dreams now ~