Are you seeking an ideal love match on internet dating sites? If you’d like to meet the great love of your life, you must avoid the top 3 online dating mistakes that stop you from finding real love. And learn what to do instead.
Mistake Number 1. No Picture – No Partner
If you don’t post a photo on your dating profile, you are wasting your investment of time and money on an internet dating site. Why?
Without a photo, you cannot catch the eye of your love match who will be looking at 97% of the dating profiles that have photos posted.
Without a photo, you won’t be invited to meet a potential love match through a video chat. The best dating sites now offer this video chatting feature, which ensures that you never have to go on another blind date again.
Without a photo, don’t bother to join a dating site because the great love of your life will pass right by your profile in a search and respond to inquiries that include photos.
What to do instead:
The best online dating profiles post the best photo of how you look today. You want to attract a match who likes how you look right now (not ten years or twenty pounds ago).
If you know and love the wonders of you, flaws and all, your healthy self love and sensuality will shine through in your photo.
Your best current photo inspires a match to find out about your inner beauty and qualities you bring to a relationship. That’s what you’ll write about in your dating profile. That’s what you’ll talk about when you meet someone during a video chat.
Mistake Number 2. Dull, Dishonest, Desperate
You can’t win the heart of your ideal love match if your attitudes or your dating profile earn a “D” grade for being dull, dishonest or desperate. You know what those words mean. Is that how you want to be known?
What to do instead:
Rev up some excitement and enthusiasm.
When you write your dating profile, imagine what entertaining tidbits you’d tell a talk show host during an interview. Remember, you’re the star of your own life and love life. Lead with your strengths and special talents. Let someone know how you overcame a great challenge.
Be proud of your authentic you.
This means your height, weight, age, career, home, interests, hobbies, accomplishments and even challenges you’re working through. Your match will find out the truth when you meet, so you might as well be true in your self portrait and all of your interactions.
Fall in love with yourself again.
Desperation repels. Healthy self love attracts love like a love magnet.
Mistake Number 3. Unrealistic Love Tests
Take a look at some Love Tests that may be blocking you from love:
Do you expect your love match to hunt and find you without you expending any effort to find them?
Do you expect to fall in love at first sight?
Are you looking for a financial bailout package?
Do you reject someone because of minor flaws because your beloved should be perfect?
Do you want more from a relationship than you’re prepared to give?
Do you wonder why you’re not in a loving relationship?
Here’s what to do instead:
Ask not what your love match can do for you. Ask yourself what qualities, talents, hobbies, interests, passions that you bring to a relationship. Like attracts like. Rev up your good qualities so that you offer more of what you seek.
When you finally feel a click of mutual chemistry with an online date, know that it takes time and devoted focus to build a solid foundation of friendship based on common values and interests. If you seek instant sparks, they can fizzle fast. Whereas friendship can catch fire and spark an eternal flame.
Honesty, healthy self love, and a mutual desire to bring out the best in each other are attitudes that will attract real love and create a healthy relationship that endures.
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