Soulful Sexuality – How Does Erotica Give Women What They Want In A Sexual Relationship?

Nielsen statistics indicate that 1 in 3 women go online to watch erotica. These women talk about it with their friends and use it to inspire desire in their sexual relationship. This news was reported by Oprah during a recent show about today’s porn and erotica industry.

Historically, women used to feel anxiety over watching porn. Now women connect with the fantasy of being desired passionately by a partner. That’s what women want most in a sexual relationship, said sex expert, Violette Blue, author of Smart Girl’s Guide To Porn.

Violette said that women also connect with erotica more than traditional porn. What’s the difference?

Porn has graphic sexual imagry which is primal and animalistic. Erotica also is graphic while being more artistic, passionate and tied to a personal story line where you want to find out how the story ends.

Oprah asked why erotica is so popular with women.

Violette Blue said that watching erotica gives you permission to be the porn star in your own relationship. She said erotica is the new sex toy that can be as reliable as a vibrator. Oprah seemed startled by her candor on daytime television.

I did a little surfing to find out how women order erotica online. Here are two popular sites:

Sssh.com says you can awaken the lover burning within when you watch their DVDs, tv shows and video sex tutorials that keep things fresh and exciting in your relationship.

MyFreePaysite.com says it has the most adult content in the world and everything is always 100% free. You will be able to watch and download more than 20,000 complete full-length movies in the same quality as they appear in the DVD at the store. You can read erotic stories, play adult games, watch porn TV channels, and access collections of Hentai and celebrity sex movie scandals. If they don’t have what you’re looking for, they promise to order it for you.

Are you open to using erotica to become a fantasy lover in your relationship? If so, let us know how it spices up your sex life in the comment box after this post.

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