What are Twin Flames to each other?
Twin Flames are your literal other half, the one
who completes you in this life, and the Twin Flame
relationship can be intense. You’re friends and
lovers, you learn from one another, you teach one
another, you share with one another, and grow
It’s the most powerful connection to have.
What is a Twin Flame?
The main purpose of a Twin Flame is usually to
ascend even higher as a soul than if just one half
incarnated. When one half of a soul comes to the
physical realm, it can only have the experiences it
has as a soul. When both halves of a soul comes to
the physical realm, there are twice as many
experiences the soul can have, and this allows for
greater growth and ascension.
If you haven’t met your Twin Flame yet, you may
experience signs that you’re a Twin Flame and
don’t know it. They include:
feeling different from everyone else
not connecting fully with someone else romantically
not feeling you have a home anywhere
having visions or dreams of love experiences
you’re a light worker or a star seed
In astrology, you may be a Twin Flame if you have:
Venus (planet of love) or the rulers of your 5th
house (of love) or 7th house (of
relationships) aspecting Saturn (Lord of Karma),
Neptune (spiritual planet), Pluto, the Descendant,
or conjunct or square your Lunar
Saturn, Pluto, or the Lunar Nodes in your 5th or
a very strong natal Saturn or Pluto
Use the free birth chart generator to find your
placements if you don’t know them!
Twin Flame Vs. Soul Mate
Some people will call Twin Flames and Soul mates
the same thing when they really aren’t. There are
many Soul mates each of us have but there’s only
one Twin Flame. Your Twin Flame technically runs
with the same Soul mates you do because you’re
the same soul. Twin Flames are a Soul mate in that
way, but your Soul mates are usually not Twin
Are Twin Flame Relationships Always Romantic?
For the most part, Twin Flame relationships are
romantic. They’re your other half, and you’re
meant to connect in every way in this life. Twin
Flames are unconditional love. The physical
connection between Twin Flames is the most intense,
incredible physical connection you can have with
someone. Next level!
Some believe that they can be platonic though, and
can manifest as incredibly strong friendships
instead of romantic ones.
Are Twin Flame Relationships Difficult?
Yes, Twin Flame relationships can be difficult.
This is usually the case when one or both of you
hasn’t yet done the mental, emotional, and
spiritual work required from your separate
experiences and traumas.
When you have baggage from whatever you’ve gone
through that you haven’t processed
properly, this can impact your ability to come
together fully with your Twin Flame.
Once you’ve both done the work, you can come
together more easily, and actually stick together.
This is when the relationship evolves to a much
higher place because both of you have already
evolved individually. Often, the challenges you
experience in a Twin Flame relationship have to do
with not dealing with baggage, learning lessons,
and not knowing who you truly are on your own.
Are Twin Flames Meant To Be Together?
Twin Flames are meant to be together in some way,
but that doesn’t mean you’ll meet early in
life, or that it’ll be smooth sailing once you do
meet and you’re always together. Many Twins meet
later in life (and often after marrying other
And again, if you haven’t done the work when it
comes to trauma and baggage, or if you do meet when
life circumstances keep you from being together,
then it may be delayed at first or you may come
together and then come apart (sometimes over and
The Twin Flame Phenomenon
If you are new to the concept of Twin Flames; here
is a brief explanation of this concept. Your Twin
Flame is essentially your highest level soulmate,
they are strictly a romantic soulmate. We all have
soulmates that we are not, and will never be, ‘in
love’ with. We may have been in love with them in
a past life, but in this lifetime, they are our
kindred spirits. A Twin Flame is a romantic
soulmate that you have been involved with during
every single one of your soul lifetimes.
At the beginning of time, each soul in your soul
circle went off of its blueprints and experienced a
series of journeys to test and challenge them.
Every soul in the circle split in two, so each
member of your social circle has its own Twin
Flame. This is what we call your ‘other half.’
It is the feeling people refer to when they say,
“you complete me.” They believe they have met
their highest level soulmate, their Twin Flame.
It is difficult to know with 100% certainty whether
or not you have met your Twin Flame in this
lifetime. Statistically speaking, most astrology
experts would say that it’s a rare event to
experience. Your Twin Flame may be on another life
path or lifetime journey and may not even be
available to you in this lifetime at all. Although,
that doesn’t mean they don’t exist, and that
you can’t communicate or connect with them.
Does Everyone Have a Twin Flame?
There tends to be some debate about whether or not
we all have one in this life. Some believe that
your Twin is usually on the other side acting as a
guide, and that what most people perceive as a Twin
Flame is actually a Soulmate. Others believe that
each of our souls split and manifest physically,
and we’re destined to come together at some point
in this life.
If you do have one, you absolutely will meet them.
When exactly is different for each set of Twin
Flames. Often, you’ll have to go through some
trials and tribulations individually before you can
come together. In fact, it’s usually better if
you don’t come together until you’ve each
learned lessons individually and have an
understanding of who each of you are. This can
mitigate some of the inherent issues that arise in
Twin Flame connections.
Can A Twin Flame Be One-Sided?
If you meet your Twin, you’ll know it and
they’ll know it. Even if neither Twin knows what
a Twin Flame is, they’ll both know there is
something incredibly different and magnetic about
the connection, something unlike they’ve ever
felt in their lives. If only one of you feels it,
then it’s likely not a Twin Flame relationship.
Now, there are the Runners and the Chasers in the
Twin Flame dynamic, where one person runs away and
the other person chases. This part of the Twin
Flame connection can make it seem like it’s
one-sided, and that the Runner doesn’t care about
the other, but that’s not true. The Runner
wouldn’t be running if they didn’t feel the
But be clear, if you meet someone who runs from
you, that doesn’t automatically mean they’re
you’re Twin Flame. They may be a False Twin
Flame, which can seem a lot like a true Twin Flame,
but isn’t the same thing at all.
Who is my Twin Flame?
Your Twin Flame if the other half of your soul.
Before incarnating, your soul split into two, and
in the case of Twin Flames, both of you incarnated
(though not necessarily at the same time, at least
the same time in the physical plane, so you won’t
often be the same physical age).
How to Recognize/Find Your Twin Flame?
There are lots of ways you can recognize you’ve
met your Twin Flame, and lots of signs that you
have. The number one way is simply, you’ll feel
it in your soul. You’ll meet this person, and
you’ll know it instantly. Something inside of you
just knows that this is your Twin – your soul!
Signs You’ve Found Your Twin Flame
1. They feel like home.
Because your Twin Flame is the other half of your
soul, when you come together, you feel
complete. You’re each home to one another. This
also prompts you to accept one another as you are
(warts and all), and you can feel very comfortable
with each other.
2. You have a ton in common . . .
You each have the same taste in music or food, have
the same oddball hobby, belong to the same clubs,
participated in the same causes, have the same
political opinions, etc. You’re both kazoo
enthusiasts or love pickles on pizza or high school
chess champions. Your Twin Flame is not going to be
your opposite in terms of what they like.
Instead, there are striking similarities between
you. It’s sometimes uncanny!
3. . . . in spite of not having the same life.
It may seem strange that you have so many weird
things in common when you’ve lived different
lives. One was rich while the other was poor, one
grew up in a conservative household while the other
is a liberal one, one’s from the farm and the
other’s from the city, and on and on. On the
surface, on paper, your backgrounds would seem to
say you shouldn’t be compatible at all. The soul
is a junkie for enlightenment, so each of you may
have very different upbringings and experiences in
life before coming together. This is meant to help
your soul ascend much more.
4. You feel like you’ve met before.
They’re so familiar to you that you swear
you’ve met them before. You actually might have
crossed paths without knowing it, or dreamed of one
another, so it’s not totally off base. You may
have lived in the same city at the same time but
didn’t know each other, you may have visited the
same place around the same time, you may have the
same friends but not know it.
5. You experience situational awareness.
You know they’re around even if you don’t see
them. You can feel them, their presence. Some write
this off as simply intuition, but in the case of
Twin Flames, because you’re the same soul, you
have an innate awareness of one another.
Signs Your Twin Flame is Thinking of You
Unexpected emotions: When your Twin Flame is
thinking of you, you may suddenly get a surge of
emotions that don’t make a lot of sense, or that
are different from whatever emotions you were just
feeling. This can be a sign that you’re
channeling the emotions of your Twin Flame.
Energy increases: By energy, this would be your
aura and general well being. You can experience an
unexpected shift upward, feeling good about
yourself or life without really knowing why that
is. Some may feel goosebumps and a tingling
In your dreams: If your Twin Flame is thinking of
you, this may connect you in your dreams. This may
be a sign that they’re consciously or
subconsciously trying to connect with you.
Reaching Out to your Twin Flame
How to Connect with your Twin Flame:
Tarot: Tarot can be helpful for figuring out
whether you’re on the right path to finding your
Twin Flame, potential blocks you need to work
through in order to connect with your Twin, and if
you think you have found your Twin, what exactly is
going on when the going gets rough. Some important
Tarot cards relating to Twin Flames are the Lovers
and the 6’s.
Numerology 11: 11 is the number that connects to
Twin Flames, and you can see the number 11, 11:11,
or 1111 (or some set of 11) when you’re going to
meet your Twin Flame pretty often. You’ll notice
it over and over again. The Universe is trying to
get your attention!
Telepathy: Since you’re the same soul, you can
connect with your Twin Flame telepathically. This
can be done at any time. Just think of them and
talk with them in your head as if they’re right
in front of you. You may want to clear your Heart
chakra and make sure you’re in the right frame of
mind first before connecting.
Dreams: Along the lines of telepathy, you can use
your dreams to connect with your Twin Flame. If you
have difficulty using the conscious mind, then make
use of your subconscious! Before going to sleep,
think about your Twin, ask your guides to allow you
to connect with your Twin in your dreams, or even
write on a piece of paper, “I dreamed of my Twin
Flame last night’ and put it under your pillow
(part magic, part manifestation!).
Meditate: If you’re inclined to meditation, you
can use guided meditations for Twin Flames to help
you connect with your Twin (you can find plenty
on Youtube!). You can communicate with them in
your meditative state. They may feel this as well.
Stages of a Twin Flame Relationship
There are 7 stages in a Twin Flame relationship
that you’ll experience.
1. Meeting: This is when you’ll come together,
and the recognition should be instant.
2. Falling in Love: This is when you realize the
incredible, powerful love in the Twin Flame
3. Start the Relationship & Everything’s
Rosey: You’ll come together in the relationship
and everything seems grand, perfect, wonderful. If
it’s a romantic relationship, intimacy can be
intense and altering.
4. Turbulence & Purging: Since Twins are a mirror
of ourselves, we can become aware of the darker,
shadow sides of ourselves by seeing them in the
Twin. This can cause challenges that need to be
addressed. This is the stage where problems can be
mitigated before you come together by working on
5. The Runner & the Chaser: This stage usually
has one of you running away from the relationship
(Runner) and the other chasing the one running
(Chaser). The more evolved of you is usually the
Chaser while the lesser evolved is usually the
Runner. But, sometimes you’ll find that both
people become Runners. This is usually when
you’ll separate for a period, and it can be short
(like a few days) or long (like many years).
6. Surrender: You understand the power of your
connection and how much you want to be in each
other’s lives, and accept one another, accept the
love, accept yourself, and heal. The healing allows
you to come to the final stage.
7. Reunion: After all of that, you now come
together in honesty and harmony.
False Twin Flame – What is It?
Sometimes when you meet someone, you may be
inclined to think they’re your Twin Flame, when
they’re actually not. In some cases, this may
just be wishful thinking; in others, it may be a
False Twin Flame.
A False Twin Flame can be incredibly similar to a
Twin Flame, hence making it easy to confuse the
two. Over time, this becomes more apparent, but it
can be difficult to distinguish at first.
Signs Of A False Twin Flame
1. Your false Twin Flame will be in tune with you
at first, and then everything changes.
In the beginning, it seems great, and they seem to
be so in tune with you and you with them. But once
you start getting comfortable, they start showing a
whole other ugly side to themselves, and you
realize you don’t have as much in common as you
2. Your false Twin Flame won’t stick around when
things get hard.
The false Twin Flame is great when things are
great, and completely unavailable to you when
things aren’t. They’re not supportive when
you’re going through hard times, they don’t
check in on you when you’re down, and they
won’t focus on improving the relationship when
there’s an issue. They’re just not invested.
3. Your false Twin doesn’t support your
If they don’t celebrate your accomplishments,
cheer you on when you’re going somewhere, and
support your ambitions, they’re a false Twin
Flame. Your true Twin Flame always wants you to
grow, while your false Twin Flame wants to hold you
4. Your false Twin is full of excuses.
There’s one excuse after another after another
for why they won’t commit to you, why they
won’t come visit you, why they won’t spend your
birthday with you, why they won’t introduce you
to their friends or family. The false Twin Flame
doesn’t see you as important or a priority.
5. Your false Twin makes you insecure.
Insecurity, anxiety, constant worry – this is
something a false Twin does to you. Your true Twin
should be someone who makes you feel comfortable
and confident in your own skin and doesn’t put
you down for what’s different about you.
Finding Twin Flame love can be one of the most
incredible, intense, and emotional experiences in
your life. They’re your person, and you’re
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