When you are a new member of an online dating site, you post your best current photo with your dating profile and then your smiling face appears in a dating search menu with a dozen other candidates on a page. Learn how to make your dating profile stand out over your competition. And find out if you have to be a Trophy Date to get a great date online.
What’s a Trophy Date?
It’s my creative spin on the term, Trophy Wife. Coined in the 1950s, a trophy wife was a young, attractive woman married to an older, powerful man. His role was to provide her with material wealth. Hers, beyond providing sex, was to remind others that he is powerful or rich enough to be desirable to a sexy young woman despite his age. So she served as a marker of his status — hence a “trophy”.
In the 1950s, she was a gold digger who didn’t work, except for volunteering for charity events and watching over the staff who took care of her home and her children.
Luckily times and roles have changed. The image of a trophy was tarnished in a relationship based on age, power, money. So I’ve polished the trophy in my definition —
A Trophy Date is prized date for all the right reasons — a date who looks their best, is amusing and fun, is honest and kindhearted, passionate, shares their talents and blessings, faces challenges with courage, resilience and grace, is dedicated to family and friends and to bringing out the best in each other.
Searching for these prized qualities in a Trophy Date among all the potential matches on a dating site may help you attract and create a healthy relationship with lasting love.
How do create a dating profile that stands out over your competition?
Post a new photo of you looking and feeling your best right now, so you attract a match who likes your physical presence.
Write about the prized qualities that you bring to a relationship and that you seek in your great love.
You will attract a match who appreciates your inner beauty that shines through in your current photo, and hopefully offers the same.
How do you beat your competition for a great date?
Millions of savvy singles are using dating sites and meeting great dates everyday. So you don’t have to share or worry about your competition.
All you need to do is strengthen your prized qualities, send out your good vibrations in your photo and dating profile, and you’ll attract a great date on your wavelength. And this could be the start of a great dating relationship.
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Dedicated to your dating and relationship happiness,