Do you ever feel unappreciated in your relationship?
Does he send you roses when what you really want is time together?
Does she give you a hug when what you really want is a home-cooked meal?
The problem may not be your love but your Love Language. Find out if you and your date or mate speak the same Love Language when you answer some simple questions on this Love Test. Then get inspired to speak the best Love Language to make each other feel loved and appreciated.
What is a Love Language?
People express and experience love in different ways, which is like speaking different love languages.
In his best-selling book, The Five Love Languages (Northfield Publishing), Dr. Gary Chapman reveals five specific languages that we use to express heartfelt commitment in a relationship.
According to Dr. Chapman, the Five Languages of Love include:
Quality Time, Words Of Affirmation, Gifts, Acts of Service and Physical Touch.
What is your Love Language?
You will discover your Love Language when you consider what makes you feel loved in a relationship. To find out, take this simple Love Test:
Do you need to receive verbal compliments, praise, encouraging or affectionate words to feel loved?
Do you need to receive gifts in order to feel loved?
Do you need the gift of someone’s presence in your daily life to feel loved?
Do you need the comfort of physical touch to feel loved?
Do you need a combination of these actions or qualities to feel loved? If so, what are your top two preferences?
How else can you discover your best love language? Consider this question: What do you complain about in your relationship?
Your complaints reveal that your preferred love language is not being spoken by your date or mate.
How can you turn a complaint into a chance for positive change?
You can tell your beloved about the Love Language that makes you feel loved and ask them to speak it more often.
What speaks volumes to you may be meaningless to your date or mate. This is why you need to explain what makes you feel loved and cherished so they can understand your unique love needs and be able to respond accordingly to make you feel loved.
What love language does your partner prefer?
Once you discover your preferred Love Language, then it’s wise to discover the Love Language your beloved requires to feel loved and cherished by you.
Can you guess how your beloved would respond if you asked them questions about their preferred Love Language?
Ask them to take this Love Test, so you know for sure how to speak their best love language.
Once you each understand the Love Language that you and your date or mate speak, what will you do with this news?
Will you each express your love in the language that your beloved speaks?
Why make the effort to learn and speak a new Love Language?
Doing so deepens your satisfaction and joy in being able to express your love and feel loved in return. It helps you–
Get all the happy, sexy love you desire,
How do dating singles find a love match who speaks your love language?