Love Test. Is Your Love Life Happening to You?

Ever feel like your life and your love life are happening to you,
and you’re just along for the ride?

Find out if this is true by taking this LOVE TEST:

Do you ever–

Question why a relationship ended when you
thought it was going great, despite your
frequent complaints or frustrations?

Wonder how you ended up in a relationship
with someone you don’t really like or admire as much
as a previous partner or potential match?

Ignore your impulse to make positive changes
so you settle for things being good enough for right now?

Overlook your concerns about incompatible values,
goals or behavior quirks so you don’t upset your partner?

Fantasize about shingling relationships–by enjoying two
relationships at once so you don’t have to give up one
or hurt anyone?

Wish you could stop bouncing around like a bumper pool
ball propelled into action by cues or commands from someone
else instead of your own?

How did you score?

Each YES answer reveals where you choose to let life happen
to you like you’re just along for the ride. That’s a choice.

Each YES reveals where you’re a reactor, not an initiator;
where you’re a settler, not a go-getter who makes dreams real.

Each YES identifies where you overlook issues instead of
improving interactions, or you avoid conflicts or positive changes
because you avoid pain at all costs.

Each YES shows you where you choose to be a passenger
along for the ride in your own love life.

Each NO reveals where you are in the driver’s seat in your life.
Each NO reveals self awareness of your vision for your best life
and relationship and your actions to make them happen.

Each NO indicates that you access your inner power to improve interactions
and choose relationships that bring out the best in each partner
as you deal with issues and grow through challenges.

Each NO shows how you choose to see and fulfill your best dreams,
instead of settling for good enough,
and you proactively design the life and relationship you love,
instead of letting your love life happen to you.

Who feels happier in life and love?

Tell us how your choices are working for you or against your
efforts to

Get all the happy sexy love you desire

Hadley Finch