Happy Sexy Love How to bulletproof relationships with happy, sexy love
In Part 1 you used the Kissing Game to become a great kisser and deepen intimacy with your partner. Now you’ll discover how to unleash your inner sex god or goddess so you can sustain passion for a lifetime in highlights of my radio interview with Charla Hathaway. She’s a certified sexologist, tantra teacher and bestselling author of 8 Erotic Nights: Passionate Encounters that Inspire Great Sex, and Erotic Massage: Sensual Touch For Deep Pleasure.
You’ve written that anyone can be or be with a sex goddess when you develop the right sex skills. What makes a woman a Sex Goddess?
“She knows she’s the source of her own erotic wisdom and joy so she makes sure that everything that is done to her feels fabulous,” Charla said. “Women have the power to feel most sexy when they feel safe. So a Sex Goddess follows one rule: unless it feels fabulous, don’t do it. Stop, tweak it, and let him know what you really want. It takes courage to show and tell a man what feels fabulous so he can please her.”
Does this mean a man can’t be a sex god unless he’s pleasing his mate?
“For a man to be a sex god, he is so truly into her that he makes her feel safe and feel heard. He’ll ask if she wants more or less pressure, and then he responds to her wishes,” Charla said. Then she illustrated her point, “In the orchestra of love, he’s the trumpet and she’s the french horn. He has to be sensitive and blend his tone with hers, rather than blare his notes to drown hers.”
A great musician once said that anyone can play the notes, but the true talent and passion is revealed in the pauses between notes. How do pauses fit into the symphony of lovemaking?
“Women orchestrate the pauses. They’re in charge of sexual pacing. Intimacy happens in the pauses when you stop and look into each other’s eyes and make a soulful connection with your partner.”
In Part 3, you’ll discover how men with erectile dysfunction can still be a great lover for a lifetime. And Charla Hathaway helps you spark up your sex life when you claim her Free audio at http://BodyJoy.us
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