Happy Sexy Love How to bulletproof relationships with happy, sexy love
In Parts 1 and 2, you’ve used the Kissing Game to become the best kisser, and you’ve unleashed your inner sex god or goddess to spice up your relationship. Now you’ll discover how a man’s health challenge known as erectile dysfunction “E.D.” can’t stop him from being a great lover in highlights of my radio discussion with Charla Hathaway. She is a certified sexologist, tantra teacher and bestselling author of 8 Erotic Nights: Passionate Encounters that Inspire Great Sex, and Erotic Massage: Sensual Touch For Deep Pleasure.
Almost 30 million American men over age 40 suffer from erectile dysfunction “E.D.”, which is the inability to get or sustain an erection for intercourse. Men with erectile dysfunction due to illness or aging may fear that’s the end of their sex life. How can a man be a great lover in spite of E.D.?
“Men can use their whole body electric to be great lovers. It isn’t having to be erect when your whole body and soul are erect,” Charla said.
What are some examples of loving with your whole body?
“Imagine the pleasure that can come from the little finger of a man who’s large in presence, awareness and soul. Your little finger could be magic. And there’s always wonderful vibrating toys.”
As if sensing a man’s concern about being replaced by a vibrator, Charla added, “You always are the personality behind creative ways you provide passion and pleasure in your relationship.”
This advice removes sexual pressure from men as they age and their erections may not be what they once were. Can you recommend any techniques men can use to prevent erectile issues?
“I advise men and women to keep their love muscles toned by doing 50 to 100 Keegle exercises every day. Squeeze and release your pelvic floor whenever you’re stopped at a red light. Or squeeze to stop the flow of urine and then let it go,” Charla said.
What’s your advice for men who still are hung up on the idea they have to be hard and perform?
“A man’s erection will not be as predictable as he gets older. You need to be gentle with yourself and slow down so you enjoy an erection and love a woman with your whole body,” Charla said.
Each time you connect with your partner in body, mind and soul, you deepen intimacy and passion. What is another top sex skill that men and women can use to enjoy erotic nights for a lifetime?
“Play the Touching Game with your partner,” Charla said. “It’s a 3 minute game from The Body Electric in which you ask your partner, ‘How do you want to be touched?’ Each time they make a suggestion, you fulfill it and then ask the question again to repeat the delightful process.”
At the end of three minutes, do you reverse roles with your partner?
“In the Touching Game, you each take 3 minutes to tell your partner how to touch you in ways that give you the most pleasure,” Charla said.
Each time you communicate honestly with an open heart and with all of your senses focused on your partner, you create a love habit that sustains passion and erotic nights for a lifetime.
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Hadley Finch
