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Ancient Masters and over 25 books written by renowned author,
Lise Bourbeau, tell us the same thing: The unhealed child inside of
an adult’s body will run the adult’s life until they see and heal
one or more of the Five Childhood Wounds suffered before age 7:
1. REJECTION: Feeling unwanted, wrong.
The adult abandons first, before others can.
2. ABANDONMENT: Feeling love always leaves, disappears.
The adult clings to loved ones, terrified of being alone.
3. HUMILIATION. Feeling your needs are shameful.
The adult rejects compliments, which feel dangerous, threatening.
4. BETRAYAL. Feeling trust leads to pain and being used.
The adult becomes controlling.
5. INJUSTICE: Feeling the world is unfair, never feeling good enough.
The adult becomes a perfectionist, a severe critic of their own flaws
How do you heal your childhood wound(s) as an adult?
You can only heal what you are aware of. How?
Stop asking yourself why you keep doing the same sabotaging thing.
Start asking: What did I decide as a child that still feels true to me now?
What repeating life patterns frustrate me the most?
When did I start feeling this way?
What did I decide about this?
That memory is where your childhood wound lives.
Your awareness of it begins your healing of it.
This ancient wisdom is reinforced by modern studies:
You aren’t your patterns. You are the person who learned to survive
something painful. Your early wound isn’t who you are.
It’s the pain that made you stop believing in all the wonders of you.
A childhood wound doesn’t disappear in time. It gets buried, yet it still impacts
your relationships, your decisions, your reactions as an adult, running your life
like invisible software that you never chose to install as a young child.
Awareness of the origin of your childhood wood helps you overcome childhood
trauma through release and self-love, instead of struggle.
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