In highlights of Hadley Finch’s radio interview with success coach, Wendy Lipton-Dibner, you discovered Wendy’s proven 3 step success formula:
Desire + Resources + Permission = Action
Now Hadley and Wendy reveal the risks in using positive affirmations before you’re ready.
Hadley: How can using will power and saying positive affirmations cause you to fail?
Wendy: If you force yourself to always think positively, you are ill equipped to handle negativity or tough challenges that knock you down. That’s one way depression can happen quickly.
Understand that the only reason we get negative is because we are angry about something. How do you find and fix that?
Ask yourself what you’re angry about. Pay attention to the reason that comes to mind.
Then you can take effective action to deal with it realistically.
Hadley: Unattended hurt leads to anger. Often we’re angry because someone has told us, ‘No.’ If so, you need to find a way to deal with and feel better about that ‘No.’
How do you turn “No” into a ‘Yes’ that gives you permission to progress?
Wendy: You do something to progress, instead of covering up the hurt with a band aid of positive affirmations.
Take these steps to get all the happy, sexy love and success you desire,
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