Despite billions of dollars spent on self improvement annually, millions of us fall short of achieving our goals. You can get everything you ever wanted in life and love right now, as you discover 3 critical components of success and take 3 steps to break through your love blocks, deal with difficult people, be even more successful, find true love and create better relationships at work and at home.
Are you skeptical of these lofty claims? Self-help gurus have recommended the 3-step formula for guaranteed success that you’ll discover in Part One of my interview with Wendy Lipton-Dibner. Wendy is the person that CEOs, success gurus and even the US Senate call for help. She wrote the amazon bestselling book, Shatter Your Speed Limits-Fast Track Your Success and Get What You Truly Want In Business and in Life.
What three steps must we take to guarantee that we always get every goal?
Getting what you want every time guaranteed depends on your ability to follow a very simple and direct formula:
Desire + Resources + Permission = Action.
Let’s examine each part of the formula.
Desire: You have to know what you truly want and why you want it.
In discovering our “Why” we discover our true goal. The harder the goal, the more important the “Why” becomes. A powerful “Why” drives you to use your time, energy and enthusiasm to fulfill it. Figuring out how to do that is the 2nd step.
Resources: You identify the assets and abilities you already have and will need to reach your goal.
Resources can be anything from the right people to the right skills. Every goal-setting expert will tell you to write it down or it’s not going to happen. So make a “Here’s what I’ve got” list of the skills and support system you already have in place that will help you achieve your goal.
Then make a “Here’s what else I need” list of things you are missing that you may need to be able to take effective action. Now you’re ready for step 3.
Permission: Give yourself the green light to go for your goal and succeed.
You may feel like a racehorse at the gate, eager and ready for the race to begin. Yet humans have a mental process that can slow you down or stop you from going for it.
In order to give yourself permission, you must notice your own speed limits–which are rules or fearful thoughts you’ve put into place to keep you safe or stop you from going where you want to go.
It’s important to look at your rules that you’ve set or others have set for you. It doesn’t really matter who set the rules as long as you know you’ve got them.
You also look at your fears of what might go wrong. In each case, you ask yourself if your rules or your fears are helping you get where you want to go. If you find that they are blocking your progress, then you consider breaking your rules or changing them so they work for you. You also embrace your fears and move forward any way, without being reckless, of course.
Once you have done this work, then you give yourself permission to go for it. You take the actions you need to guarantee your success every time.
In Part Two, you’ll discover examples of how to take every step in this formula for guaranteed success in life and love.
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