In Part 1, you discovered ancient yet politically-incorrect secrets of red-hot sex that lovers of Fifty Shades of Grey understand, but feminists don’t. Now you discover why ballsy women make men run from a sexual relationship and how to change that if you want to win at work and have great sex at home.
Men also become better lovers when you understand the sexual secrets you discover in Part 2 highlights of my radio conversation for A Lasting Love with BJ Gallagher. She’s a sought after sociologist and author of Why Don’t I Do The Things I Know Are Good For Me? and Being Buddha At Work, with a foreword by the Dalai Lama.
Hadley: We talked about the need too balance the male and female energy that’s within each of us, and use your feminine power to reach the peak of sexual pleasure with a man. Feminists have guided women to become more masculine to win at work. How does this sabotage a woman’s sex life and how do we change that?
BJ: If a woman shows up as the masculine one in your sexual relationship, there’s no place for the man to go except to be more feminine. If he doesn’t want to do that, he leaves.
That’s why Ann Coulter complained on TV that she can’t get a great guy. She acts like a guy with breasts. She brings forth masculine, alpha energy, swearing like a man, and this repels an alpha man.
Hadley: It’s angry energy that’s not attractive in women or men.
BJ: Yet anger is an acceptable emotion in men. If they’re sad, or upset, or afraid, it shows up as anger because we accept it more than vulnerability in men.
Hadley: So what’s your dating advice for Ann Coulter and other women whose masculine energy dominates?
BJ: If Ann Coulter really wants an alpha male, she has to be the feminine one. It’s not your hair flipping that attracts a man. It’s all about your sharing your glorious feminine energy.
I bet you know less attractive women who have men flocking around them. They control their feminine energy. Masculine energy usually dominates to win at work, but not in a sexual relationship with an alpha man.
Hadley: How do women shift from leading with masculine energy at work to feminine energy at home?
BJ: Come home from work and take a bubble bath or get a massage to open up your feminine energy. Actually, it doesn’t matter who brings the masculine energy and who brings the feminine energy, as long as you’ve got both. Relationships don’t work when masculine energy is dominant in both partners.
Hadley: What about the women whose feminine power dominates? How do they win at work?
BJ: A women must understand men to win at work. When I’m in a business meeting with men, I still use my feminine power to reach their heart. I may say, “I’m confused why we’re doing X when we want Y.” Or “This is not the type of relationship I want to have with you, because we’re colleagues. We can behave better than this.”
Hadley: Speaking your truth from your heart in non-threatening ways is a source of power in your professional and personal life. Let’s talk about why some women drawn to men who inflict pain, like Ana Steele is drawn to Christian Grey in Fifty Shades of Grey. How do they experience sexual ecstasy without entering the chamber of pain?
Get the secrets in Part 3 highlights of my radio conversation for A Lasting Love with BJ Gallagher. Or listen to our entire conversation by clicking here.
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