Happy Sexy Love How to bulletproof relationships with happy, sexy love
Some of us think of discipline as punishment, like giving a child a brief “time out” to calm down and ponder unacceptable behavior. I encourage you to use another form of discipline to love deeply.
The kind of discipline I’m talking about is defined in the dictionary as an “activity, exercise, or a regimen that develops or improves a skill; training.”
How do you use positive discipline in dating or relationships?
A disciplined dater adopts the attitudes and action plan that help you become a love magnet and create healthy, happy relationships.
How?
First, you fall in love with yourself again so you are emotionally fit and fabulous and you radiate love. Since like attracts like, you’ll attract a love match with healthy self love.
What if you’re already in a relationship?
Boosting your self love makes you even more irresistible, because we all love to be around loving, happy people.
Being disciplined enough to date your mate for a lifetime also creates a foundation of fun that holds you together in tough times.
Loving yourself in healthy ways inspires your partner to see you with new eyes and love you in new ways that keep things fresh and exciting.
What daily discipline helps you fall in love again with yourself?
You can use my 5 R’s:
Rev up your best qualities so weaknesses lose power
Revive your dreams and take action on them every day
Recharge your health so that you look and feel your best
Remain resilient and optimistic so you rise to meet any challenge
Remember the love so your sad, old stories fade away.
Need another reason to add this discipline to your dating and relationship tool kit?
This old saying gives you more incentive: “The pain of discipline weighs ounces, while the pain of regret weighs tons.” So a little discipline saves us from a ton of regrets.
When you use the 5 R’s each day, you break old habits and limiting beliefs that block love. You free yourself to find and fulfill your passion and experience greater intimacy throughout your lifetime. And you create better relationships with everyone in your life. Can you think of a better way to live happily ever after?
Enjoy happy, sexy love that lasts,
Hadley Finch
