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Online Dating Guide – Do You Know 3 Ways to Trick a Virtual Date Into Loving You?

I often tell my online community that singles can fall in love at the speed of write on an internet dating site unless you heed the red flags. There are a hundred million singles seeking their love match online. Some are using 3 tactics to trick a virtual date into loving them. These 3 sneaky tactics won’t fool anyone once you meet in person. So I recommend that you use 3 successful strategies to win the heart of a virtual date.

3 Sneaky Tactics To Trick A Virtual Date Into Loving You

1. Post a misleading photo of yourself

You may think you still resemble your old photos when you were 10-20 years younger or 20-30 pounds lighter. What if your virtual date doesn’t agree with you when you meet in person? Do you want to see their shock or disappointment?

Here’s what to do instead:

Post a current photo (less than a year old) of you looking and feeling your best today. It really doesn’t matter how you once looked. You want to attract a love match who likes the way you look and feel your best right now.

2. Shave years off of your age

We’ve heard that today’s 50 is yesterday’s 30, but an energetic 50 year old can’t list their age as 30 without lying.

We know there can be a big difference between your chronological age based on your actual birth date versus your real age determined by your genes, choices, health of your environment, quality of your food and optimistic outlook.

We may agree it’s unfair for men and women to be passed over in online dating searches because you’ve exceeded an arbitrary age limit that a potential match had in mind.

How does age discrimination tempt you to lie about your age in your dating profile?

Consider this handsome, ivy league 60 year old man who is as fit and energetic as a man half his age. He still wants to have or adopt a baby, so he is seeking a much younger mate online. When women didn’t search for a man his age or didn’t reply to his inquiries (because of age?) he decided to shave 5 years off his age on his dating profile.

This was a difficult decision for an honest man to make, but it helped him deal with age discrimination online. He had posted a current photo, so a virtual date could see an honest picture of how he looked today. And he was honest about his actual age as soon as he met a virtual date. Yet he felt forced to shave years off his age to meet his love match.

Here’s what to do instead:

Join a dating service that gives you an option to take a written test to discover your REAL AGE, based on your choices, genes, health history and good luck. Then list your REAL AGE in your dating profile, and be perfectly clear that you’ve done this in your introduction.

Join a dating service that let’s you search for matches within an age range without forcing you to list your chronological age. If you’re seeking a match between the ages of 21 and 31 or 38 and 58, that’s the age range you in which you would be placed for online searches.

Do these dating sites exist? Only one. TribeOfSingles dating site asks you to post the preferred age range of your match and that will be the same age range you will appear in searches.

3. Paint An Idealized Self Portrait In Your Written Profile

Do you exaggerate your accomplishments? Are you afraid to mention a big challenge you’re facing or one you’ve overcome? Do you fail to mention that you want to have a baby because it might limit your responses?

Here’s what to do instead:

You want to limit your responses and attract a love match who understands who you are, what you bring to a relationship, what values you hold dear and what you want to enjoy and build as a team.

Think of your dating profile as promotion for your own reality show. You explain what you’re about, what you want to achieve, and then you deliver on your promise or people will tune you out.

Painting a realistic self portrait that reveals your real strengths, values and goals is the only way you will attract a match who values and understands the authentic you and what you want to offer and experience as you create a healthy, loving relationship.

And I’ll help you choose your perfect match in TribeOfSingles.com dating site where great singles find great love.You don’t post your age, only a recent photo, so you can find love at any age. No more blind dates, since you meet in fun video chats and dream travel at dream prices. Take a FREE look around as my guest

Love deeply and live your dreams now,

Hadley Finch

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