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Online Dating Guide – Do You Know How To Be Popular And Choose Your Best Love Match Online?

When you’re popular on internet dating sites, the challenge is to choose the right match from all of the intriguing candidates. You’re about to learn how to be popular and choose your best love match on internet dating sites.

What does it take to be popular on internet dating sites?

1. Your best current photo

You may think you’re too high profile to post a photo or too fat or thin to post a current photo.
Without a photo, no one will click on your dating profile, so don’t waste your time and money on a dating site.

Your best current photo means flattering lighting, outfit, setting and lots of personality shining through a close up.
No sun glasses. We see character and soul through your eyes.
Not a mug shot. This is your album cover, movie poster, or cover shot for a business or sports magazine. How will you present your best you so that you attract attention and get people interested in co-starring in your love story?

2. Your best dating profile

Imagine you are being interviewed by Barbara Walters, so you want to paint an entertaining and authentic self portrait, spoken from your heart.

Describe the wonderful qualities, talents, strengths, joys you bring to a relationship.
Mention the main love lesson you learned from your past relationship.
Be honest about qualities and character traits you desire or expect from your partner in a new relationship.
Be clear about the importance of chemistry–sexual, intellectual, spiritual, emotional
Reveal a secret dream or desire you’d like to fulfill in your personal life.

3. Your best video chats

Speak from the heart and keep it light and fun when you meet a match during a video chat.
Schedule a chat before you change into your pjs for the night, so that you look and feel your daily best.
Ask questions about qualities or strengths you offer or seek in a relationship to help you choose your best love match.

If you’d like to get a glimpse into a match’s character and soul, here are popular topics to explore while you meet through video chats:

Good relationship with family, friends, ex-partners?
Good health and fitness habits–eating, exercising, emotional compatibility?
Good work ethic–contributing energy and effort needed to do best at work and in relationships?
Good with money–living within your means?
Good grasp of reality–taking correct actions needed to fulfill obligations and dreams?
Good balance between career and personal life?
Good self image, manners, hygiene?
Good outlook, seeing silver linings and happy endings?
Good communicator, showing excitement and desire to know and be known by you?
Good baggage handler, letting go of old sad stories and carrying challenges with courage and grace?
Good with change, making choices that lead to progress and personal growth?

Like attracts like. So you’re best current photo, dating profile and video chats offered from the heart will be popular with potential matches who value and share the wonders of you. When you feel a mutual click of chemistry, common interests and understanding, you may choose to take the next step and meet in a public place.

And if you’d like to meet savvy singles through video chats and travel vacations, I invite you to enjoy a free month membership in the Singles Club of Tribe Of Blondes. Not a hair color, it’s a resilient optimism that unites us and fuels our passionate choices and personal triumphs. Claim your free, 30-day trial membership when you click SINGLES CLUB at the top of this page. Enjoy!

Dedicated to your dating and relationship happiness,


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