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Your Love Guide – Do You Know How To Take 3 Steps Toward Lasting Love?

Do you feel stuck in a loveless relationship? Or are you single and tired of dating relationships that don’t work out? Unhappy couples can revive the love and dating singles can attract real love when you follow these smart Love Tips now.

How To Take 3 Steps Toward Lasting Love:

1. Shift Your Focus

Many lonely or disappointed singles and couples have one thing in common. You have a thinking habit of focusing on what you don’t want. When you get more and more of what you don’t want, this fulfills and feeds a negative, pessimistic attitude. Why?

“What you see will be.” This is a motto I often tell my online community as a reminder to focus your attention on what you do want, and then take the right actions to live your dreams now.

Can pessimists ever become optimists?

Fortunately, you can replace your pessimistic thinking habit with an optimistic attitude and action plan. How?

Each time you catch yourself thinking about what you don’t want, you instantly flip your thought switch to the exact opposite–which usually is what you do want.

For example, if you’re thinking how you don’t want to feel lonely, you instantly shift your focus to being happy and fulfilled in a loving relationship. Then give thanks for loving friends or family you have in your life.

When you shift focus to optimistic thoughts and feelings of love and gratitude you create good vibrations in existing relationships and attract optimists with good vibrations into your life.

2. Fall In Love Again

If you find yourself thinking how your mate fails you or how your dates constantly disappoint you, your thought blame is misplaced. Blaming others for your unhappiness is a sign you expect your joy and fulfillment to spring from someone else.

Here’s a wake up call to action: You aren’t free to love someone freely, truly and deeply, warts and all, until you love yourself the same way.

The things that bother you about others are often are the same things you haven’t learned to love and accept about yourself. What do you do with this news?

* Make a list of everything that upsets you about the people in your life.
* Look at your list, notice how you have the same traits, and accept your imperfections with love instead of criticism.
* Now make a list of the things you love about people in your life.
* Look at your list, notice how you have the same qualities, and accept these qualities with love.
* Focus your attention on the qualities you love, so you strengthen them in yourself, bring out the best in others or attract your best love match.

3. Be The Love You Want To Receive

When you give whatever you feel is missing, your empty void disappears.

If you’re not receiving the attention and love you desire in a relationship, start giving this positive attention and love to yourself and to your loved ones as a sure-fire path to feeling loved and fulfilled.

What if you’re single and seeking love?

You also need to be in the places where you may meet your best love match. Where are those places? Here’s a simple way to find out.

Make a list of qualities and common interests you seek in your best match. Where do people with those qualities and interests spend time? Start spending time there and meeting like-minded friends and potential romantic partners.

You also can find a matchmaker or join a dating site that attracts like-minded singles with the qualities, interests, and good vibrations you offer and seek in a loving relationship.

You’ll meet like-minded singles when you enjoy a free months membership in the Singles Club in Tribe Of Blondes. Not a hair color, it’s a resilient optimistic spirit that unites us.

You’ll meet the savvy Tribe Of Singles in video chats, book discussions and singles travel for every budget as soon as you claim your free trial membership. How?

Simply click on SINGLES CLUB in the menu bar, and sign up now. Enjoy!

Dedicated to your dating and relationship happiness,

Hadley Finch

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