If you’ve had a series of breakups or heartbreaks in your relationships, you may have wondered if it’s your destiny to be unlucky in love. I’d like you to see your destiny with new eyes so that you can change the course of your love life right now.
How do we discover our destiny?
A French Proverb says that you meet your destiny often in the road you take to avoid it.
According to William Jennings Bryan, destiny is not a matter of chance, it is a matter of choice; it is not a thing to be waited for, it is a thing to be achieved.
How do you achieve your destiny?
Let Ralph Waldo Emerson be your guide: Sow a thought and you reap an action; sow an act and you reap a habit; sow a habit and you reap a character; sow a character and you reap a destiny.
I often tell my online community that you achieve your destiny in your character, core values and choices you make at every cross roads. Each path you choose leads you to a different destiny.
Is love your destiny?
It is when you make choices to stay on the path with heart.
As you prepare to make a choice at each crossroads, ask yourself if you are choosing the path has heart. Ask yourself if your choice is aligned with the core values that you live by. Take an honest look at how you are using your time, energy, and talents and whether you express healthy self love in each choice and connection with others.
Talk to your heart as if it’s a dear friend, and then listen to your heart for the answer. If you feel a deep inner contentment with your choice, it’s a sign you are choosing a loving path.
Alternately, if your choice causes pain, triggers fear, drains your vital energy or prompts regrets, then you have veered off the the loving path.
Fortunately, you can self correct each time you reach a crossroads and choose the loving path. Choosing a win-win outcome that brings contentment to you and others is a sure-fire way to make love your destiny every day.
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Dedicated to our dating and relationship happiness,